Shin kun taba tunanin cewa a yayin da kuke magana ta al'ada da abokin hulɗarku yana amfani da wani tarihin NLP (fasahar neurolinguistic programming), haɗin gwargwadon maganganu? Dangane da gaskiyar cewa an mayar da hankalinku a kan mãkirci mai ban sha'awa, ba ku ma tunanin tunanin dan lokaci wanda mutum yake sarrafawa.
Asirin NLP: Conversational Hypnosis
Irin wannan tauraron a cikin NLP ana kiransa likitanci na Ericksonian, wanda mutum ya san dabaru na hypnotherapy. Milton Eriks, mai kirkirar shawara da ke sama da kuma wanda ya kirkiro wani sabon yanayi a cikin psychotherapy, ya hada haɗakar haɓaka a kan mutumin da yake da harshen asiri mai mahimmanci. A cikinsa, kalmomin suna bambanta da haskensu, ma'ana, hasashe. Ya kamata a lura cewa hypnotherapist kullum yana ba da haƙuri ga zabi: ko dai don yarda da wannan shawara, ko kuma ya ƙi shi.
Sakamakon gaskiya na wannan hypnoosis ita ce tasiri na aiki tare da mutum psyche yana karuwa, domin, ta hanyar watsar da iko a kan sashin ilimin, mai tsabta yana aiki tare da wanda ba ya sani ba.
Babban asiri da banbanci daga hypnoosis na al'ada shine cewa a cikin sulhuntawa, ba a amfani da shawarwari-kalmomin ba, amma duk abin da ke cikin kowannen mu yana amfani. Sau da yawa mai tsafta yana fara labarin daga mutum na farko ko na uku kuma bayan wani lokaci yana tafiya zuwa ga wanda ya yi magana.
Yanayin rarraba: tarihin ya ƙunshi maganin maganin warkewa wanda yake taimaka wa mai tsabta ya cimma burinsa. Har ila yau ana amfani dasu kalma kalmomi, kalmomin da suka nuna shakatawa, nutsewa a cikin duniyarku.