Babban matsala na ilimin kai shi ne tsari mai tsawo kuma mai wuya ba kowa zai iya yi ba, wasu sun gaji sosai a farkon tafiya, kuma ci gaba da halayen su yana da karfi ko an dakatar da su.
Dalilin sanin kai da ci gaban mutum
A cikin ilimin kwakwalwa, ilimin mutum shi ne nazarin halin mutum da halayyar mutum. Ya fara da lokacin haihuwa kuma yana rayuwa. Akwai matakai guda biyu na sanin kai:
- Farfesa - mutum ya san kansa ta hanyar wasu mutane, yana yin hoton kansa gaba daya daga kalmomin wasu;
- na biyu - canjin ra'ayi game da kanka a sakamakon bambance-bambance, a wannan mataki mutum baya dogara ga ra'ayi na sauran mutane, amma ya bayyana kansa.
Saboda haka, ilimin da sauran mutane da ilimi da kansu suke da alaka da juna. Mutum zai iya zama ba tare da sauran ba, amma a wannan yanayin ra'ayin mutum kan kansa ba zai zama cikakke ba. Manufar ilimin kai ba kawai don samun bayani game da kanka ba, amma har ma a cigaba da ci gaban mutum , ba sa hankalta don samun duk wani bayani idan babu shirin don amfani da shi.
Dalili na ilimin kai shi ne kallo na kallo wanda ya biyo baya. Har ila yau, a lokacin sanin kanka, akwai kwatanta da kanka tare da wasu ma'auni ko wasu mutane, da kuma bayyana halin mutum. A cikin matakai na gaba, akwai fahimtar cewa kowane ingancin yana da tashe-tashen hankula da ƙetare. Lokacin da aka gano kwarewar ingancin da aka sani a matsayin mummuna, ana sauƙaƙarda tsarin karɓar karɓa, wanda shine lokaci mai muhimmanci na ilimin kai.
Littattafai game da ilimin kai
Wata hanya mai mahimmanci don ƙarin koyo game da kanka da kuma kwatanta hanyoyi na ci gaba da ci gaban su ne littattafai game da ilimin kai. Akwai yawancin su kuma a kowace shekara suna da karuwa, daga cikinsu akwai abubuwan da ke biyo baya.
- "Hanyar Mai Kyau" daga D. Millman.
- Carlos Castaneda, littattafai 11, ciki har da "Tatsunan Wuta", "Hudu zuwa Ixtlan", "Ƙarfin Ƙarfin" da sauransu.
- Ɗaurar da Erich Fromm, misali, "Sauce daga Freedom", "The Art of Love".
- Friedrich Nietzsche "Mutum, ma ɗan adam."
- Richard Bach "Hypnoosis ga Maryamu."
Bugu da ƙari, karatun littattafai da gabatarwa, akwai wasu abubuwan da suka dace don sanin kansu, duk da haka, ana karɓar su a cikin jinsin, kuma ilimin halin yau da kullum ba shi da damuwa a gare su. Daga cikin waɗannan maganganu shine tunani ne, a matsayin hanya mafi girma a kan duk wani matsala, aikace-aikace don ƙaddamarwa da sauran hanyoyi na horar da kanka.