Ƙaunar soyayya

Wannan lokaci ana iya samuwa a wasu sharuɗɗa a kan ilimin yara. Ƙaunar soyayya shine sha'awar wucewa ga yaro ya kasance tare da uwar. Yawancin iyayen mata sukan fuskanci irin wannan abu, amma akwai wasu matan da basu san yadda suke haifa ba.

Mene ne ma'anar kalmar da aka shafi abin da ake nufi?

Ma'anar wannan zancen za'a iya samuwa a cikin wasu ayyuka akan ilimin halayyar yaro. Karfin sha'awar yaron ya kasance kusa da mahaifiyar - shine abin da kalmar da ke nuna tausayi na nufin. Tabbatar cewa jaririn yana fuskantar wannan jiha mai sauƙi. A matsayinka na mulkin, irin waɗannan yara ba sa so su bar iyayensu na minti ɗaya. Ba su da sha'awar wasanni tare da wasu yara, duk abin da suke so su kasance tare da mahaifiyarsu a kowane lokaci. Iyaye da suka haɗu da irin wannan hali sukan ce cewa yaron ya shirya wajibi ko da saboda mahaifiyar ta bar ɗakin a cikin ɗakin ba tare da shan ta ba.

Dalili na bayyanar irin wannan maƙallan abu mai haɗari zai iya zama abubuwa daban-daban. A wasu shekarun, jariri yana da ƙwayar Oedipus ko ƙwayar Electra . A wannan lokaci akwai alamun alamar abin da zai dace da lokaci. Mafi mahimmancin masana ilimin psychologists sunyi la'akari da yanayin yayin da mahaifiyar kanta ta samar da irin wannan hali a cikin yaro.

Halin iyaye da tasiri akan yara

Wasu iyaye mata, saboda yanayin dabi'a, suna haifar da sha'awar yara. Yawancin lokaci wannan ya faru idan mace ta baiwa jaririn dual sigina, alal misali, ta lokaci daya ta kwantar da jaririn, wato, nuna masa ƙaunarsa da halayyarsa, kuma a lokaci guda ya tsawata masa. A irin wannan yanayi, yaro ba zai iya fahimtar abin da iyaye ke so ya fada masa ta hanyar ayyukansa ba, wannan yana haifar da karfi ga mahaifiyarsa.

Masanan sunyi shawara iyaye su lura da sakonnin da suke aikawa ga 'ya'yansu. Yarin ya kamata ya fahimci ainihin saƙon da ya karɓa daga uwarsa. A cikin yara yana da wuya a fahimci faruwar wasu motsin zuciyarmu . Yarinyar ba zai iya gane cewa mahaifiyarsa ta tsawata masa ba, ta kuma yi masa maƙarƙashiya a lokaci guda saboda ta ji tsoro ƙwarai. Amma ya ji wani abu mai ban mamaki yana faruwa, wanda ke nufin, tsoro. Ƙoƙarin daidaitawa da halayyar iyaye na iya haifar da yarinyar da yake ƙoƙari ya kasance kusa da uwarsa a duk lokacin.