Ya faru da cewa ka fahimci mutum, bayyanarsa ba sananne ba ne, amma yana sha'awar kansa cewa yana so ya sake sadarwa da shi kuma da sake. Wadannan mutane suna da kyauta na musamman don yada wa mutanen da ke kewaye da su rashin tausayi. Wannan sabon abu da muke kira ba wani abu bane da gawar mutum.
An fassara ma'anar halayen daga Girkanci, a matsayin "alherin da Allah ya bayar," irin wannan alamar da aka zaɓa. Abin da ya sa yake da ban sha'awa sosai, ko yana yiwuwa a bunkasa halayen kuma idan haka, yadda za a yi. Wadansu sun gaskata cewa wannan inganci marar kyau ne, kuma ba shi yiwuwa a samu shi a cikin rayuwar. Duk da haka, akwai magoya bayan gaskiyar cewa kowa yana da kyakkyawan farawa, wanda ke nufin cewa ci gaban halayen aiki ne, ko da yake ba sauki, amma ainihin gaske.
Bari mu sauka zuwa kasuwanci!
Bayanin shawarwarin za su taimake ka:
- Yi ƙaunar kanka da kuma sha'awar kanka, yi imani da abin da ka bambanta. Amma a yin hakan, duba layin tsakanin ƙauna da son kai.
- Kasancewa da kyau, sau da yawa fita cikin haske, horar da ƙwarewar sadarwarka, kada kaji tsoro don samun masani ga sababbin mutane.
- Gudanar da salon rayuwa, koda yaushe yin wani abu, saboda yana da sauƙi ga mutum mai sha'awar goyan bayan hira, yana da ban sha'awa ga wasu.
- Yi rayuwa da kyau, tashi cikin safiya cikin yanayi mai kyau, ji dadin kowace rana da kuka rayu, murmushi sau da yawa.
- Yi mutunta mutane da ke kewaye da ku, ku koya ba kawai don saurare ba, amma ku ji su. Tambayi tambayoyi game da mai magana, nuna sha'awar halinsa.
- Dubi yadda kake sadarwa, da rage gesticulate, da karin haske a cikin ƙungiyoyi.
- Cikin muryar murya ma wani muhimmin sashi ne na asiri. Bayyana ra'ayoyinka, kada ku yi shakka, a bayyane, a fili, amma kuzantu don so ku saurare ku ji abin da kuke magana.
Mene ne mutum mai ban sha'awa?
Domin ya fahimci wani saurayi mai ban sha'awa a cikin taron, yana da mahimmanci a fahimci abin da halayen musamman suka mallaki ta maza. Lura cewa mutumin nan:
- Taimakon kai lokacin warware duk matsalolin ba ya neman taimako daga wasu.
- Galantine, mai kyau, ya dubi cikin idanu, ba a halin da yake da mummunar lalata ba, hali mara kyau da nuna juyayi.
- Mafi sau da yawa, ya fi son launin fata a cikin tufafi. Idan kun yi taye, to, a yayin hira yana janye shi. Idan babu taye, to, kuyi rubutun.
- Ta tafi barci sosai marigayi, amma tashi sama da wuri. Yana haifar da salon rayuwa mai kyau.
Mutanen da suke da halayen, suna da iko akan wasu. Wannan wani ɓangaren jagora ne, yana taimakawa, a cikin aiki da rayuwar mutum, don haka kada ka manta da ci gabanta kuma hakan zai taimaka maka ka samu nasara a kowane filin.