Ayyuka da hangen nesa suna nuna zurfin tunani da tunanin mutum, wanda yake so ya kashe kansa. Bugu da ƙari, gesticulation iya zama ba kawai ku unmasker, amma har katin tarin. Idan ka koyi yadda za a kula da kanka, da kuma horar da wasu gesticulations, za ka iya samun nasara wajen kirkiro mutane a kan gaskiya. Alal misali, gyaran gashin ido, wanda yake da kyau a cikin ilimin halayen gestures, ya kamata a yi amfani da ita don sanin yadda ya kamata.
Gesticulation da ƙarya
Mafi mahimmanci a cikin ilimin halayyar gestures, ba shakka, shine lissafin ƙarya. Muna so mu iya yin karya kuma kada mu fyauce a cikin zafi, sannan kuma mu nuna wa wadanda suke ƙoƙari su rataye baki a kunnuwan mu.
Idan ba mu yi imani da abokin hulɗarmu ba, muna sanya hannu a kan kunnuwan kunnuwanmu (duba ko dai sauran alamu sun rataye?)
Kuma maƙaryata sun taɓa wuyan wuyansa, maɓallin baƙaƙe, maƙalar abin wuya. Har ila yau, suna shafar maɗaukaki da murfin hanci.
Sabanin yarda da kwarewa, ilimin halayen mutum da nuna fuska ba ya zama abu ne na idanu da rufe baki ba. Sau da yawa kishiyar gaskiya ce, kuma maƙaryata, maimakon haka, ya kamata a ƙididdige shi ta hanyar motsa jiki da kuma maganganun fuska. Alal misali:
- kallon kwatsam na kallo a lokacin kwance;
- hanzari ko maganganun da aka yi wa mata.
Jin tausayi da rashin tausayi
Har ila yau, a cikin ilimin halayyar mutum na nunawa, ana kulawa da hankali sosai ga jin tausayi da rashin tausayi, wato, lissafta ainihin gaskiyar mai magana.
A cikin ilimin halayyar kwakwalwa, ana nuna irin wannan motsin tausayi:
- karfi mai tsauri;
- yadu yaduwa kafafu, safa suna kallo a cikin jagorancin mai shiga tsakani;
- kwaikwayo a cikin gestures, kalmomi, maganganun fuska;
- ƙananan sha'awar jiki gaba;
- bude dabino.
Gestures of antipathy (rashin tausayi, irritation, zalunci):
- sauki musafiha;
- ketare makamai da kafafu;
- Kwancen dabino tare da gungura masu yatsa;
- ƙuƙumma da ƙuƙumma.
- zev;
- hannaye a kan kwatangwalo;
- hannaye a cikin aljihuna;
- Kusa da wurin zama, alal misali, don motsawa daga mai shiga tsakani;
- duba ruwa.
Hanyar namiji
Mata, kamar koyaushe, suna da sha'awar tambaya mai mahimmanci: "mai son ko rashin so." Yanayin MCH zai taimaka wajen gane ƙwaƙwalwar halayen mutane.
Idan yana son ku, za a ba da mutumin da wannan aikin:
- yadu yadu kafafu a cikin wuri ko matsayi;
- wasa tare da tsokoki: sipping, deflection na baya, dumi da hannun;
- wani mutum yana tafiya a ƙasa, kamar dabba yana nuna kyakkyawan dabi'arsa;
- bai dubi kai tsaye a cikin idanu ba, amma kallo yana zane a jikin jiki;
- ɗalibai sun ruɗe;
- namiji da mace suna jin dadin juna, ba da kyautar gwanin (gwanin gashi, kafa "ƙafa da ƙafa").