Barbarwar sadarwa

A rayuwarmu, muna sadarwa tare da juna kowace rana. Wani wanda aka ba da wannan sadarwar ta sauƙi da sauƙi, kuma wani ya sami harshen na kowa tare da wasu ba zai yiwu ba. Me yasa wannan yake faruwa? Hakika, dukkanmu suna da alama suna magana da wannan harshe, don haka dole ne mu fahimci juna. Ya bayyana cewa a cikin hanyar sadarwa, ba kawai kalmomi suna ɗaukar nauyin sakonni - maganganun fuska ba, intonation da gestures ba su taka muhimmiyar rawa ba .

Shirye-shiryen da suke tasowa a sadarwa shine matsaloli da suke girma a hanyar fahimtar mai magana. Irin wannan matsala zai iya kasancewa yanayin dabi'ar mutum, halinsa, halin motsa jiki, da kuma hanyar sadarwa.

Nau'in shinge a cikin sadarwa

Harkokin ilimin halayen sadarwa na sadarwa ya raba zuwa manyan nau'ikan hudu: halin da ake ciki, motsa jiki, haɓakacciyar ra'ayi da halayyar sadarwa. Don haka, bari mu dubi kowane nau'i daban.

1. Abubuwan da ke faruwa a wuri ɗaya - tashi saboda ra'ayoyi daban-daban na abokan tarayya a kan matsalar ɗaya. Alal misali, mai shiga tsakani zai iya nuna tausayi tare da rukuni na masu jin daɗi game da batun, yayin da wani abokin tarayya zai yi fushi da muryar da ake ciki daga yara ba tare da shiga ainihin tattaunawar ba.
2. Abubuwan haɓaka motsa jiki - tashi idan mutum ya ɓoye ainihin motsawar maganganunsa, ko kuma kawai bai gane muhimmancin su ba.
3. Matsayi na shinge - tashi saboda rashin fahimtar ainihin tattaunawar mai magana da mutum. Difficulties da barriers na sadarwa, a wannan yanayin, tashi lokacin da mutum bai iya fahimtar ra'ayin abokin tarayya ba kuma bai fahimci abin da tattaunawar ke nufi ba.
4. Harkokin ilimin kimiyya sune nau'i na ciki wanda ke hana mutum a cikin sadarwa. Mafi sau da yawa, ya bayyana saboda tsoron kasancewar rashin fahimta, wanda mai haɗinsa ya ƙi shi ko ya shiga mummunan izgili a kan abokin tarayya kuma ana ƙi shi, koda kuwa mafi yawan abin da ya faru na gaskiya.

Sadarwar sadarwa a cikin sadarwa

Sadarwar sasantawar sadarwa ta fito ne daga abubuwan da ke tattare da tunanin mutum da kuma abubuwan da suka fito daga waje wanda ya kasance a hanyar karɓar ko watsa bayanai tsakanin masu magana.

Tun da babu wata ƙungiya ta sasantawa ta hanyar sadarwa, muna la'akari da nau'i biyu na wannan shamaki:

1. Harkokin sadarwa na waje - a fitowar wadannan barriers, ba wai kawai mutane suna laifi ba, amma duk wani yanayi, yanayin jiki wanda ba ya dogara da nufin mutane kuma ba batun batun tattaunawa ba. Dalili na fitowa da wani jigilar harshe yana iya zama ba kawai murya mai ƙarfi ba ko yanayin yanayi mara kyau, amma kuma rashin fahimta saboda gaskiyar cewa masu magana suna magana da harsuna daban.
2. Harkokin sadarwa na cikin gida shine matsala mafi wuya, wanda kana buƙatar yin gwagwarmaya da dogon lokaci da kuma daɗaɗɗe. Abubuwan da ke cikin gida na iya tashi saboda dalilan da ya hana yin nazarin bayanin da aka samu daga mai shiga tsakani. Zasu iya zama abokin tarayya na fushi da banbanci da bayyanarsa, da kuma rashin son mutum ga mutum.

Harkokin sadarwa na sadarwa na sadarwa zai iya zama abin damuwa ga aikinka, saboda haka suna buƙatar cin nasara. A gaskiya ma, suna nan har sai kun yanke shawarar kawar da su kuma kada kuyi tunani game da shi. Yi kokarin magance matsalolin sadarwa, ba da hankali ga mai ba da shawara kuma nuna sha'awar gaske, to, a gare ku, shingen sadarwa zai kasance har abada.

Gudanar da rayuwarmu ba tare da kullun ga sadarwa ta hanyar sadarwa ba kusan ba zai yiwu ba, sai dai kawai sadarwa tare da mutanen da ke da dadi a gare mu, kuma kuna gane cewa wannan ba zai yiwu ba. Ayyukan da ke fuskantar kowane memba na al'umma shine don sanin irin ƙuntatawarsa ta rashin fahimta a hanyar sadarwa da kuma amfani da hanyar da ta fi dacewa ta kawar. Don kawar da shinge a cikin sadarwa, koyaushe ƙoƙarin kasancewa mai amincewa, kwantar da hankali da kuma jure wa rauni na wasu, da kuma kauce wa rikice-rikice ya zama cikakke!