Yadda za a sami mutum ƙaunatacce?

A cikin tattaunawar mata a kowane lokaci kuma sai ya ce: "Ina so in sami mutum ƙaunatacce, amma ba ya aiki!". Sau da yawa yakan faru irin wannan, cewa cikin ƙauna ba sa ɗaukar mai hankali, mai ban sha'awa da kuma yarinya wanda ke da kishiya ya tattara mahalli masu sha'awar samun nasara. Saboda haka, tambayar yadda za a sami mutumin ƙaunataccen mutum yana da muhimmanci ga mutane da dama.

Yadda za a sami wanda kake ƙauna - aikin kan kanka

Yawancin 'yan mata ba su kula da gaskiyar cewa suna nuna kansu a hanyar da za su tura' yan takara masu dacewa. Gaskiyar ita ce, tare da "Ina so in sami ƙaunatacciyar" a cikin layi daya sune irin wannan mummunan imani kamar:

• "Ina da rashin tausayi";
• "Ina son masu shan barazana / masu lalata / marasa adalci / wawaye";
• "Babu mutane masu kyau a garinmu";
• "Ba zan taɓa yarda da in fahimci hanya / a cikin cafe / kulob din ba," da dai sauransu.

Irin wannan jerin za'a iya ci gaba ba tare da iyaka ba. Maimaita wadannan tunani sau da dama, yarinyar ta haifar da tsari don gaskiyar cewa mutumin kirki bai dace da ita ba, kuma idan ya aikata haka, za ta yanke shi - ko dai saboda ta zo cikin wuri marar dacewa, ko kuma saboda ta dauke shi mara cancanci, ba bayan ya fitar. Idan irin waɗannan imani sune mahimmanci a gare ku kuma kuna zaton cewa suna da alamun barazanar - ku sani cewa cin nasara ku ne kasuwanci. Yi watsi da irin wannan tunani, ka maida hankali akan kyawawan abubuwan da ke cikin rayuwarka, kuma ka ninka shi.

Inda zan sami mutum ƙaunatacce?

Wani kuskure na yau da kullum game da 'yan mata guda ɗaya shine matsayi na jima'i. Wasu sun gaskata cewa ba zai yiwu ba a samu nasarar samun bayanai game da Intanet, a titi, da dai sauransu. (kodayake na da dogon lokaci akwai lokuttan da aka sani lokacin da irin wannan masaniya ya zama iyali).

Bugu da ƙari, 'yan mata sukan sanya kansu ga ƙi, cewa ko da dan sarki ya kusanci su a kan farin doki, sun ƙi yin masani da shi. Cire wannan toshe zai iya kasancewa, idan kuna yin magana da baki - tare da adireshin, lokaci, da dai sauransu. Babban abu shine yadda za a sami mutum ƙaunataccena, don haka yana da shirye-shiryen wannan taro a kowane lokaci. Ba za ku taɓa tunanin inda za ku hadu da shi - a cikin kantin sayar da kaya, a kide-kide, a titi, a Intanit, a wata ƙungiya ko a cikin sufuri. Ka kasance a kan faɗakarwa: kana buƙatar kullun kallon mace, mai kyau da tsabta, don haka 'yantacce kyauta kuma jawo su don sanin su.

A cikin tambaya game da inda za ka sami ƙaunatacciyar, babu amsoshin tambayoyin - kawai ku ciyar kamar yadda ya kamata a gida da kuma yadda ya kamata - a wuraren jama'a. Samun al'ada don ɗaukar kwamfutar tafi-da-gidanka a cikin cafe tare da kyauta kyauta, kuma kada ku zauna a gida. Don haka kuna da damar da za ku iya fahimtar juna, wanda zai zama abin ban sha'awa.