Halin da ake yi na bikin tunawa da bikin auren ya zama tushen ga ma'aurata da dama, don haka ya zama hutu na mutum, don haka ya ce "kwanan wata dangantaka ta ƙungiyar." Yana da kyau a ba da suna ga bikin aure, alal misali, ma'aurata da suka yi aure don shekara 1 suna yin bikin aure na auduga, shekaru 5 yana da katako, shekaru 10 yana da bikin aure, da sauransu. An fara kiran sunayen bikin auren a Jamus, to, wannan al'adar ta samo tushe a Ingila, Faransa da kuma, ba shakka, Rasha. Abinda ya canza shi ne wasu abubuwan tunawa da ranar tunawa, misali a Jamus suna bikin auren amber (shekaru 4), a siliki na Netherlands, a cikin bikin auren Scandinavian, kuma a Rasha an tsara wannan bikin aure a matsayin bikin aure.
Wannan "rashin jituwa a cikin sunaye" bai taba yin bikin auren ruby ba, wadda ma'aurata suka yi auren auren shekaru 40. Dukkanin ƙasashen sun amince da sunan Ruby Wedding, kuma babban alamar wannan bikin shine dutse mai daraja.
Yin bikin ranar tunawa ya kasance mai haske da damuwa, tare da baƙi masu yawa. Zauren da dakuna suna da kyau a yi ado a launin jan (ruby launi). Yi ado dakin tare da labulen labulen, kayan ado, furanni da iska. Za a iya yin tebur mai laushi "ja": kifi jan (salmon da sturgeon), nama mai nama (naman alade, naman sa), 'ya'yan itatuwa jan. Cake, da aka yi ado da hatsi na pomegranate, rasberi ko ceri, ba zai zama mai ban mamaki ba.
Gifts don ruby bikin aure
A dangi, abokai ko iyaye sun zo ranar tunawa - bikin aure na Ruby. Abin da za a bayar da kuma yadda za a shirya kyauta daidai - wannan tambaya ta tambayi masu baƙi. Akwai kyaututtuka na gargajiya da yawa wadanda suka dace da yanayin hutu.
- Ado da rubies . Wata ila, a ranar cika shekaru 40 da wannan kyauta zai zama mafi yawan sa ran da kuma gargajiya. Zaɓin kayan ado yana da yawa: zobba, 'yan kunne, alamu, pendants da mundaye. Ruby ba wai kawai kyakkyawa ta cika kayan ado ba, amma kuma yana taimaka wa mutane su kasance lafiya da karfi na dogon lokaci. Yana ceton daga bakin ciki da ƙananan ƙwayoyin cuta, yana fitar da rashin tausayi da rashin tausananci, yana taimakawa wajen fidda zuciya. Musamman ma kyautar wannan kyauta ta dace da bikin auren ruby ga iyaye.
- Souvenirs tare da rubies ko duwatsu masu daraja na jan tabarau. Za a iya yi wa manyan duwatsu kayan ado, masu rubutun takardu, shaguna, kwanduna da kwanduna, sutura, tsage, kwarewa don dangantaka, rubuce-rubuce mai kyau, fitilu. Exquisitely duba kullun daggers, pistols da takuba, da aka yi ado da rubies.
- Wine . Zai zama kyakkyawan kyauta don bikin aure na ruby. Ɗauki kwalban jan giya mai ruwan inabi, ko kuma tara ruwan inabi (akalla - kwalabe 40). Sautin launi na ruwan inabi zai sake maimaita batun bikin, amma dandano mai dadi zai faranta wa jaruntaka da baƙi. Ba lallai ba ne don saya kayan giya mai shigo da nisa daga waje, kula da giya daga Moldova, Ukraine da Georgia. Daga cikin su, kuma, akwai taro na cancanta masu daraja.
- Flowers. Zabi furen furanni na furanni. Zai iya kunshi wardi, tulips, carnations, poppies, gladioli, dahlias da dabbobin daji, wanda zaka iya tara ta kanka. Idan uwar gida yana son houseplants, to, za ka iya ba da tsire-tsire a cikin tukwane da launin jan ko furanni, kamar capsicum,
adonum , na maple, na cyclamen, azalea da sauransu.
Bugu da ƙari, ga waɗannan kyauta kyauta, akwai wasu sauran hanyoyi. Ci gaba daga hanyar da ake samu da kuma dangantakar da kake ciki tare da jubile. Idan ka zaɓi abin da za ka ba iyaye don bikin aure na ruby, zaka iya tuntubar juna tare da su, saboda dangantaka kusa da iyalinka ba ka damar yin haka. Zai yiwu akwai wani abu da suka yi mafarki da yawa, amma sun kasance kunya su ce. Kyauta na asali zai zama hoton hoto a murfin ja, inda zaka iya lalata hotuna iyali na jarumi. Hakanan zaka iya yin umurni da cake a cikin zane na ainihi tare da rubutun gaisuwa.