Maza suna yin ba'a da sha'awar 'yan mata don neman sarki, amma suna son suyi zancen halaye da ka'idodi na ainihin mace, suyi mafarkin abin da mai kyau mashawarta ita ce, mai ƙauna mai kyau da mahaifiyar kulawa. Hakika, a wannan yanayin, magana game da rashin kuskuren gano manufa daga dukkan bangarori na matar an kwashe su sosai.
Kyakkyawan mace, menene yake so?
Wane ne ya cancanci wannan matsayi mai girma: mahaifiyar 'ya'ya bakwai, mai cin gashin cinikin kasuwanci ko kyauta mai kyau? Ko kuwa don haka dole ne ku sami sakamako mai kyau a wasanni, ko ku kare likitan a cikin ilimin kimiyyar nukiliya? Idan kun saurari mazajen mutum, to lallai mace ta ainihi ta hada dukkan waɗannan alamu. A gaskiya, wannan, ba shakka, ba ya faru, saboda haka dole ne a sake nazarin ka'idoji, sakamakon haka akwai kawai sigogi guda biyu kawai: borsch da adadi mai kyau.
Kuma tun da wakilan mawuyacin jima'i ba za su iya ba da labarin yadda ta kasance ainihin mace ba, dole ne ka ƙirƙira wa kanka takaddun dokoki ga waɗannan mutane masu ban mamaki. Har ila yau, mujallu na mata ba a shirye suke su fassara wannan ma'anar fahimta ba. Wasu rahoto cewa ainihin mace tana nuna dabi'ar sarauniya, saboda haka dukkanin maza suna tsalle, kuma dukkanin sha'awar da ake yi a kan tunani guda daya ga duniya. Wasu suna magana game da nauyin nauyin da ba su da kyau, wanda ko da sauki yana iya mallaka.
Ya bayyana cewa halaye na musamman wanda ainihin mace ya kamata ya kasance a cikin yanayi, kuma kowane irin wannan mutumin zai iya ɗaukar wannan lakabi, amma kawai mutumin ƙaunatacce zai iya biya ta. Domin, ko ta yaya Emancipated Lady ya zauna, kowa yana son dumi. Amma don samun shi, dole ne ka gwada ƙoƙarin zama abokin tarayya na abokin tarayya, wanda kowa yana so ya kafa misali. Kuma akwai wata tambaya mai mahimmanci game da ci gaba da aiki. Abin baƙin ciki ita ce, don samun matsayi na ainihin mace, ba lallai ba ne ya cancanci samun nasara ga harkokin kasuwancin. Ga masu shawarwari daga mujallu na mata waɗanda ke magana game da bukatar yin tunani game da bukatun su. Akwai marmarin yin aiki a cikin iyali, zama ainihin mace kuma haifar da cosiness, ba tare da manta ya kasance mai ban sha'awa (ba kawai a cikin yanayin jiki) ga mijinta ba. Kuma idan ana ganin yiwuwar fahimtar kanka tare da aikace-aikacen ƙwarewar sana'a, to, ku lura da fasaha na daidaita tsakanin iyali da aiki, ba tare da rasa digo na ainihi na ainihi ba.