Halin hali na narcissistic

Kowane mutum yana tunawa da shirin makarantar labari na Narcissus - wani kyakkyawan saurayi wanda ya yi ƙaunar kansa kuma ya mutu daga jin daɗin da ba a sani ba. Yanzu kalman nan "narcissus" a cikin ilimin halayyar mutumtaka wani abu ne na kowa, yana kwatanta mutumin da yake narcissistic, yana tunanin kansa mafi kyau fiye da sauran.

Psychology na yanayin narcissistic hali

Don gano cewa narcissus abu ne mai sauƙi, ruwayarsa tana nuna kansa a kowace fuska, kowane kallo. Irin wannan mutumin ya jaddada wajibi ne ya yi aiki da kansa kuma ba sa hannu a cikin babban asalin "launin toka" ba. Abubuwan halayya a gare shi sune abubuwan da ke gaba a cikin halin.

1. Sharp amsa ga zargi, ba tare da nuna halin da suke ciki ba, abubuwan da suka faru da lalacewar fushi, kunya da wulakanci.
2. Gwargwadon cikakkiyar amincewar kansu, da tsammanin kwarewa idan babu aikin da ake fama da ita a kan kansu.
3. Abun zumunci da ƙauna suna yawan hatsari saboda sha'awar yin amfani da wasu mutane don manufofin su.
4. Amincewa da bambancin da ke cikin matsalolin, sabili da haka, daga mutane talakawa da taimako bazai jira ba, kawai masana kimiyya mafi kwarewa zasu iya warware matsalar.
5. Yana zaune a cikin kwarewa game da aiki mai ban mamaki, daukaka da ƙauna.
6. Ya ɗauki matsayi na musamman, yana gaskanta cewa sauran ya kamata yayi masa kyauta ba tare da dalili ba.
7. Ya buƙatar da hankali daga wasu mutane, don haka akwai yiwuwar yin abubuwa "don nuna", don samun yarda.
8. Kishiyar kishi ga sauran mutane.
9. Samun damar yin tausayi tare da nutsewa a cikin abubuwan da suke da shi, don haka sauran mutane suna da mahimmanci gareshi.

A al'ada, kada ka lakabi mutum a matsayin "narcissus", gano kawai daya daga cikin alamun da aka lissafa. Zaka iya magana game da matsalar kawai bayan gano abubuwa 5 ko fiye.

Jiyya game da lalacewar halin mutumtaka

Kamar yadda zaka iya fahimta, yana da matukar wuya a sadarwa tare da halayen narcissistic, haka ma, mutumin da irin wannan Rashin rashin lafiya sau da yawa rashin farin ciki. Ya kasance cikin damuwa, kuma saboda matsananciyar hankali ga ƙeta (hakikanin ko tunanin) na girman kansa, yana da damuwa da rashin tausayi , wanda ba zai yiwu ya fita ba. Abu mafi munin abu shi ne cewa halin kirkirar dabi'un yana da wuyar magance. Matsalar ita ce irin wadannan mutane suna neman dalilin rashin nasara ba a cikin kansu ba, amma a wasu, don haka ba su kula da kansu ga mai ilimin hanyoyin kwantar da hankali ba, musamman ga waɗanda suke da akalla hatsi na basira don samar da kansu tare da girmamawa. Amma duk da cewa narcissus ya sauka a kan liyafar zuwa likita, kada ku jira don warware matsalolin matsalolin - maganin zai iya ɗaukar shekaru masu yawa.