Mafi yawancin 'yan adam kullum sukan shiga cikin hulɗar sadarwa tare da wasu mutane. Bukatar sadarwa ta samo a cikin kowa, kowa yana iya yin magana da yawa, da kuma wani kamar sau biyu a rana. Mutane sukan so su sadarwa.
Bari muyi la'akari da yadda ake bukatar irin wannan bukatar bil'adama da abin da aka tsara shi.
Abun da ake bukata don sadarwa shine daya daga cikin bukatun jama'a. Yana tasowa lokacin da kwarewa ta haɗu a cikin hulɗa da wasu mutane. Dalilinsa shi ne buƙatar lambobin sadaukarwa, bincike da kuma wasu fasaha don gamsar da wannan bukata. Yana nuna kanta a cikin sha'awar mutum don kasancewa cikin rukuni, ya zama memba na shi, don yin hulɗa tare da shi, don taimakawa wanda zai taimaka kuma ya karɓa daga gare ta, idan ya cancanta. Shirye-shiryen buƙatar sadarwa yana faruwa a cikin sha'awar shiga tare da wasu mutane a kowane aikin haɗin gwiwa. Yana motsawa, yana taimakawa wajen tallafawa da kuma jagorantar kowane aikin kowane mutum a cikin hanyar sadarwa tare da wasu mutane.
A cikin yara, sadarwa a matsayin bukatun zamantakewa ba kyakkyawan inborn ba ne, amma an kafa shi a kan tushen aikin aiki na manya da, sau da yawa, yana nuna kanta zuwa watanni 2. Matasan sunyi imanin cewa ba wai kawai suna da irin wannan bukata ba, amma a wannan, suna iya sadarwa kamar yadda suke so. Akwai lokutan da suke nuna alamun nuna rashin amincewa ga manya, lokacin da wannan karshen ya hana iyakarsu ta sadarwa.
Idan mukayi magana game da bukatun manya don sadarwa, suna sadarwa mai yawa fiye da yadda suke so, sau da yawa suna shiga cikin ƙananan. Don fahimtar asalin samuwar halayen sadarwa, za muyi la'akari da irin hanyoyin sadarwa.
- Mamayar. Mutum yana ƙoƙarin yin tasiri game da bukatu, halayyar, rukunin tunani na wani mutum.
- Prestige. Wasu mutane a cikin sadarwa suna da masaniya game da kwarewarsu, ƙauna daga mai shiga tsakani.
- Tsaro. Don taimakawa tashin hankali, jin tsoro, mutane sukan fara neman dangi, wani lokaci har ma da baƙo.
- Mutum. Bukatar sadarwa don nuna wa wasu abin da mutum ya samu, yadda asali yake
hali. - Kariya. Idan mutum yana da marmarin nuna damuwa ga wasu, yana so ya cika wannan sha'awar sadarwa.
- Cognition. Bukatar sadarwa idan mutum ya nemi ya koyi sabon abu, abin da abokinsa zai iya fada masa.
Don haka, kowa yana bukatar sadarwa, amma wasu ba su da haske kamar yadda wasu suka nuna. Yana da daraja tunawa, idan mutum yayi ƙoƙari ya gaya maka wani abu, kana buƙatar saurara, bar shi yayi magana.