Halin batun shirin yara yana sa iyaye suyi la'akari da yawancin nuances kafin, lokacin da kuma bayan zane. Bada sakamakon binciken da aka samu na 'yan shekarun da suka fara zama iyayensu, yawancin mutane ba su da lokaci don kare wannan al'amari. Saboda haka, a lokuta da yawa, ana tambayar tambaya a nau'i biyu: "Yaushe ne mafi sauki kuma mafi kyawun yin ciki?"
Mafi kyawun lokacin zane
Yawancin shekaru masu dacewa don hawan yaro shine tsawon shekarun 20-35, lokacin da tafiyar matakai na jiki sunyi aiki sosai, kuma yiwuwar maye gurbin kwayoyin halitta da raguwa shi ne kadan. Wannan yana da mahimmanci wajen haifar da 'ya'ya masu kyau.
Idan muka yi magana game da lokacin shekara, lokacin da ya fi dacewa da juna biyu, yawancin likitoci sun bada shawarar lokacin ƙaddamarwa. An yi imanin cewa a wannan lokaci jikin mutum yana da cikakke cikakke tare da bitamin, wanda zai haifar da kyakkyawar tasiri da halayyar ciki. Amma a gaskiya ma, wannan shawara ba zata zama duniya ba, kamar yadda wasu suna fama da ƙwayoyin cuta a lokacin hunturu, wanda bazai da tasirin gaske a kan ci gaban jariri.
Idan iyayen da ke gaba zasu kasance irin wannan yanayin, to, don kare tayin daga sakamakon cututtuka a lokacin hunturu, yana da kyau a tsara shirin a farkon bazara. Amma a wannan yanayin, kana bukatar ka kasance a shirye don gaskiyar cewa jiki a wannan lokaci ya raunana sosai, don haka don tallafinta kafin ɗaukar ciki da kuma bayan da ya zama dole ya dauki hadaddun bitamin wanda ya karfafa ƙarfinsa.
Yaushe zan iya ciki?
A wace rana ya fi kyau a yi ciki - an tabbatar da ƙayyadadden yanayin juyayi ga kowace mace. A cikin ma'auran mata, akwai lokutan da ovum ya shiga cikin mahaifa ta hanyar tubes na fallopian, wato, kwayar halitta tana faruwa. Yawancin lokaci, idan babu cututtuka na al'ada na yankin, sai ya kasance tsakiyar tsakiyar sake zagayowar (idan zuwan ya kasance kwanaki 28 - ranar 14, idan 26 - ta 13). An sani cewa ran rai na ovum yana da sa'o'i 24, wannan shine lokaci lokacin da babbar damar samun ciki. Duk da haka, ana la'akari da al'ada da kuma ɗan farawa da farko ko sauƙi mai sauki (1-2 days), sabili da haka lokacin lokacin da zai yiwu ya yi ciki yana ƙaruwa kuma yana da kusan kwanaki 5-6 (kwana 3 kafin a yi jima'i da kwana 3 bayan). Sauran kwanaki na sake zagayowar shine lokacin da ba za ku iya yin ciki ba.
Don gaya kwanakin da ya fi dacewa a yi ciki, ba kawai kalandar taimakawa ba, amma har ma gwajin gwaji, wanda ya ƙayyade farkon ƙwayar halitta, da kuma auna na yau da kullum akan yawan zafin jiki, inda karuwa a cikin alamun lokacin rana zai nuna sakin kwai.
Yaya za ku iya samun ciki?
Ƙara chances na ciki za a iya amfani da matsayi na musamman na jima'i don zurfin shiga cikin jiki. Musamman ma, mafi dacewa da irin waɗannan lokuta shine mishan mishan, lokacin da matar take kwance a baya, kuma abokin tarayya yana kan gaba. Don taimakawa wajen yaduwa da kwayar halitta a cikin mahaifa zai iya zama dabara a ƙarƙashin gwanon matashin matashin mata. Bayan yin jima'i, an bada shawarar cewa mace ta kasance a cikin matsayi.
Halin yiwuwar samar da yaron yafi girma a cikin ma'aurata inda abokin tarayya ke da lafiya, ba a cika aikin da danniya ba. Don yin wannan, a mataki na shirin yin ciki, likitoci sun ba da shawarar yin hutu a kasuwanci, yin hutu, shakatawa.