Ka tuna da kunya: "Ka kula da maza, suna sha wahala duk lokacin: daga rashin kulawa da mata, daga kisa, da kuma wani lokacin kawai maganar banza"? Wannan shi ne ainihin gaske, dole kawai ku dubi irin halin da suke yi a kan gashin kansu. Yawancin, suna lura da tsire-tsire-tsire-tsire-tsire a kan kai, ka yi kokarin rufe kansa tare da gashin sauran. Kuma ya dubi banza da ban tsoro. A'a, a bayyane yake cewa suna yin wannan a cikin ƙoƙari na samun ƙarin ƙira a cikin idon jima'i. Amma me ya sa irin wannan azabtarwa, za ka iya tunanin cewa mata kawai ne mai kyau a cikin daraja.
Shin 'yan mata kamar' yan sanda ne?
Zai zama alama cewa amsar wannan tambaya ta kasance a saman. To, gaskiya ne, mene ne kake son mafi kyau - binne yatsunsu a cikin yatsan launuka ko ƙuƙwalwa a ball? Amma ba duk abin da yake da sauki ba, bisa ga kididdigar, kashi 40 cikin 100 na mata suna daukar namiji ne don yin jima'i. Wata kila, irin wannan shahararrun mutane da sutura mai sassauci suna bada kyautar Hollywood da kuma na gida. Alal misali, Vin Diesel, Gosha Kutsenko, Bruce Willis, Billy Zane, Michael Clark Douglas, Rostislav Hight, Jason Statham - duk waɗannan maza sun dade kuma suna da matukar sha'awar mata. Saboda haka amsar wannan tambaya, ko namiji kamar 'yan mata, za su zama irin - hakika, kamar dai, watakila ba duka kuma ba duka ba, amma zukatan kusan rabin yawan mata na duniya suna cikin su.
Me ya sa matan suna son mazajen tagulla?
Mu, masoya don sutura da gashin kai, yana da wuya a fahimci abin da ke sa wasu mata su dubi jin dadi ga mutanen da ke nuna girman kai. Bari mu ga yadda masu da kwanciyar hankali suna da kyau.
- Wasu mutane sunyi tunanin mutanen da ba su da ƙauna. Kuma ilimin kimiyya ya tabbatar da wani bangare - a wasu lokuta, zafin jiki na iya haifar da haɗari na hormone testosterone, wanda babban adadin shi ke da alhakin ƙara yawan sha'awar jima'i. A wannan yanayin, asarar gashi yana farawa da wuri - a cikin shekaru 18 zuwa 20, kuma shekaru 35 ya kai hawan. Amma dalilin bayyanar wannan wuri ba zai iya wucewa kawai kawai ba, amma har da damuwa, rashin abinci mai gina jiki da kuma yawan cututtuka.
- Harkokin gwaji sun bayar da rahoto game da yiwuwar halayyar maza da mata. An ce har ma masu mallakan kai ba su iya ba da babbar kariya game da yin jima'i ga abokantaka.
- Har ila yau sau da yawa wani wuri ne mai nuna alama ya zama alama ce ta mai hankali a kan mai shi, domin kashi hudu cikin dukan malaman da furofesoshi na jami'o'i sune maza da kai tsaye. Duk da haka, a cewar masana kimiyya, wannan ra'ayi ba shi da kyau, amma stereotype ya riga ya ɗauki siffar. Saboda haka, namiji, da mutum a cikin tabarau, za a iya gane ta ta hanyar mace mai gaskiya.
- Har ila yau magungunan masu jima'i suna da hankali don bayyana sha'awar mata ga mazajen ƙananan maza, ba tare da wani bincike don yanayin haske ba, amma a matsayin sha'awar neman aboki a rayuwa. Maganin yana a cikin stereotype na gaba, godiya ga wajibi ne (ko tare da kai tsaye) ana ganin sunyi nasara kuma abin dogara. Ba tare da dalili ba, kimanin kashi 26 cikin dari na maza suna da matsayi na jagoranci suna samun karancin gashi.
- Mutanen da ba a fahimci ba ne suna da rinjaye. Na gode da bincike na A. Mannes daga Pennsylvania an tabbatar da wannan ra'ayi. Duba hotunan mutanen da aka yi wa maza, mutane sun dauka cewa sun fi girma (kimanin 2.5 cm a matsakaita) da kuma karfi (ta 13%) fiye da gaskiya.
- Har ila yau, maza da kawunansu suna da karfin zuciya ga mata. Idan mutum yana da girman kai kuma yana da tabbacin ɗaukar kullunsa, to, ya yiwu, yana nuna irin wannan tabbacin a cikin kowane kasuwanci. Wannan shi ne
ba a tabbatar da ra'ayi ba, amma, aƙalla, irin waɗannan mutane suna da kyau fiye da waɗanda suka yi ƙoƙarin ƙoƙari su rufe ƙananan ƙuƙwalwarsu tare da sauran gashin da suka rage. - Daga cikin wadansu abubuwa, 'yan wasa masu yawa (masu iyo, masu jefa kwallo) suna sa gashin gashi "ba kome ba," saboda haka a matakin ƙananan ra'ayi, wani mutum da ke da kai tsaye yana da lafiya da karfi.
Bayan nazarin dukan muhawarar, har ma ta zama mummunan mummunan mummunan hali ga masu marmari na gashi, idan wannan ya ci gaba, suna da haɗari da kuma mika wuya ga mazajensu.