Da farko, kowa yana jin haɗari. Akwai mutanen da suke kiran kansu ba tare da wata ba, kuma, tabbas, suna jin wannan jinƙancin sau da yawa fiye da waɗanda suke gaban kowa da kowa ba daga nasara ba . An dai yarda cewa akwai kishi da fari da baki, don haka bari mu ga idan akwai wani wuri a cikin lexicon don "kishi" mai kyau.
Akwai bambanci?
Farin haushi ne lokacin da babu wata damuwa da damuwa a cikin jika, akwai fatan gaske don samun nasara ga sauran. Amma tun da ra'ayi na kishi ya haɗu da kasancewa da fushi, kwatanta, ba kyauta mafi kyau ga kishi ba, bambancin launin fata bai dace ba. Farin kishi ba kawai ba ne.
Abin da ake kira, wulakanci baƙar fata - wannan shine bayyanar gaskiyar wannan lokacin tunani.
Mun ba da misalai guda biyu. Idan budurwar ta sami kanta tare da ci gaba da cin abinci, sakamakon abin da ta rasa nauyin, zaku iya samun irin waɗannan abubuwa:
- farin ciki, sha'awa, nuna godiya sosai - wannan shine idan kun yarda da nauyinku, wanda shine ma'anar farin kishi;
- fushi, sha'awar tunanin mutum "mafi kyau" ga budurwarka - wannan shine ainihin kishi, lokacin da kake "fushi" da wani saboda yana da wani abu da ba ka da shi.
Da haɗamar haka mun zo tambaya game da dalilin da yasa mata suke kishin juna.
Ra'ayin mata
Babu budurwa tsakanin mata, akwai kawai masu fafatawa. A bisa mahimmanci, dukkan mutane, juyin halitta, suna kula da juna a matsayin masu fafatawa, amma a cikin mata, dangane da gwagwarmaya don kulawa da namiji, wannan ya fi faɗar magana.
Kun taba tunanin dalilin da yasa mutane suke kishin juna, kawai tare da matsayi na zamantakewar zamantakewa? Za ku ji kishi ga aboki wanda ya sayi sabuwar kwamfutar tafi-da-gidanka, amma ba za ku ji wannan jinin na oligarch ba,
Juyin Halitta ya sanya mu masu fafatawa, kuma wannan shine tabbacin samun damar ɗan adam. Amma muna gasa a matakinmu. Wani malami mai kimanin dala biliyan 5 zai yi haɗari da oligarch tare da biliyan 12, kuma za ku amsa - "Ina da matsalolin ku." Kishi yana iya zama da amfani kuma mai albarka. Lokacin da kake fushi da cewa ba ka da abin da abokinka ke da shi, kai tsaye ka ji a cikin kyakkyawan jagora kuma ka yanke shawara: Shin abin da kake so ne da kishi? Idan haka ne, ci gaba da nasarorin, kuma idan ba haka ba, za ku daina yin kishi.