Hannun maza: yaya aka shirya abubuwa a cikinsu? Mabiya zamani na Cleopatra sun tilasta katanga mai karfi don tsaftacewa da shirya abinci.
Maganin mata a karni na 21 ba abin mamaki bane: a wasu ƙasashen gabas, har yanzu mata suna daidaita da dabbobin, kuma babu wanda ya ga wani abin da yake damuwa a gaskiya cewa mutum daya ya zauna tare da mata da yawa. Wannan nau'i na dangantaka ana kiran auren mata fiye da daya, amma akwai kuma irin wannan dangantaka - polyandry. Wannan wani nau'i ne na "harem da akasin haka," inda wata mace ta sami dama ta zabi kowane dare wani sabon mutum daga cikin masu sha'awar sa.
Mafi shahararrun mai shigo da maza
Babbar maigidan Kaisar, Sarauniya Cleopatra, ba ta kasance da aminci ga babban kwamandan ba. Misira da Roma suna sane da sha'awar su, kamar yadda suke ziyarci juna akai-akai, amma mutane da yawa ba su iya tunanin irin sha'awar da aka yi tsakanin mutane biyu na tarihi ba.
Da zarar Kaisar ya bar lardin ta ƙaunataccen, sai ta aika wa 'yar'uwarta, Princess Arsinoe labarai. Shi ne Arsinoe Cleopatra da ke rufe mahaifiyarta na matasa matasa shida. Duk da haka, ga Kaisar ba ta koyi kome ba, bayan dare daya a kan gado na gado, an kashe saurayi, don haka shiga cikin harem ba wani mataki ba ne don samun nasara, amma ga mutuwa. Lokacin da Kaisar ya koyi gaskiya, ya yi ritaya kuma ya ɗauki Arsinoe a sarƙoƙi don fansa.
Sarauniya mai ban mamaki na India da mazajensu
A farkon karni na III BC. Dan kasar Indiya Draupadi ya gigice tsohuwar zamani tare da shawararta ta dauki maza biyar a lokaci daya. Dukkanin su 'yan uwan juna ne, wanda shine dalilin yakin da mutanen da ke kusa da su, wadanda suka yi la'akari da Draupadi,' yar Panchal, ta 'yancin gaskiya, wanda ke ɓata harsashin ginin. A wannan lokacin, matar ba ta da hakkin ya dubi mutumin ya yi magana da shi kawai "lord", don haka jaririn da ya dace da jima'i ya sami labari na bikin aure.
Da farko, Draupal yana shirin yin aure ne kawai ɗan'uwansu na uku, wanda ake kira Arjuna. Lokacin da ya fahimci cewa 'yan'uwansa suna ƙauna da amarya kamar yadda yake, sai ya nuna cewa ta zauna tare da babban iyalin. Kowace yamma wani sabon miji ya ziyarce ta kuma kowanne daga cikinsu ta haifi ɗa daya. Ba duk mazajenta sun kasance suna shirye su ci gaba da halayyar halin mutum mai kyau na Draupala ba, don haka wata rana tsohuwar mijin Yudhisthira ya ɓata ga ƙasusuwan abokinsa.
Shugabannin Asiya masu ƙauna
Mazauna ƙasashen Asiya suna haɗuwa da geishas mai tawali'u, suna iya raira waƙa da maza da raira waƙa, daɗi mai dadi da rawa. Abin da ya faru ne, amma a China ne mafi yawan mata masu sha'awar maza da mata ke zaune. Wu Zhao shi ne na farko. Shekaru goma sha uku ta zama ƙwarƙwarar sarki mai mulki, amma bayan rasuwarsa, Wu Zhao ya shiga cikin zumunci tare da dansa, ya kashe dukan sauran ƙaunata kuma ya dauka sunan mai daukaka.
Bayan samun nasarar, ta zaba masu ba da basira da masu ba da shawara, sun ba da kanta ta shakatawa da kuma shiga cikin duniya na jin dadi. Kowane ƙwaraƙwaransa na da girma (fiye da 2 m) da jiki mai karfi. Yayin da Wu Zhao ke shiga, ta manta da jihar da kuma nauyin iko a hannunsu. Raunin jini mai tsananin jini yana amfani da maza bayan wasan kwaikwayo: daga zuriyarta da jini ta sanya fuskokin fuska da fuskokin jiki don tsawanta matasa.
Yayin da Tsang Wu ya kasance 'yar'uwar sarki, marigayi Shanyin ta bi misali na magajinta. Tana son dan uwanta, wanda yana da dubban ƙwaraƙwarai, kuma a karshe ya tabbatar da cewa ya kamata ta ba ta wata harem daga maza. Brother ya ba Shanyin 30 daga cikin manyan mayaƙan daular, amma sai ta juya ya zama mafi yawan gaske na nymphomaniac, wannan shine dalilin da yasa mutane basu da yawa. Kowace rana ƙwaraƙwaran ƙwaraƙwarai sun zo ɗakin ɗakin ɗakinta, amma ta yi kuka kuma sun yi gunaguni cewa ba wanda zai iya ba shi gamsuwa. Cang U ta gajiyar da'awarta - kuma ya gina ta ta'aziyar ta'aziyya ga babban gidan sarauta-harem.
A shekara ta 1908, wanda ya mallaki harem tare da maza a kasar Sin ya mutu - Tsi Si. Ta fara kiran ƙwaraƙwaran bayan rasuwar mijinta-sarki Izhu, yana fatan za ta nutse sha'awar shi. Kafin mutuwarsa, Qi Xi ya ce:
"Kursiyin Dragon ba zai sake fadawa karkashin iko da tasirin mace ..."
Gidaran zamani na "babba" matriarch
Matsayi a cikin al'amuran al'ada, inda aka dauka mace a matsayin iyalin iyali, yanzu an sami shi a kasashen Afirka, amma an haramta hares a cikinsu. A Ghana da Côte d'Ivoire, matan suna magance manyan kudaden kudi da kuma matsalolin gidaje, amma suna da nisa daga 'yanci a cikin dangantakar da ke tsakanin mutanen Tibet da Sichuan da Yunnan da tsibirin Oceania.
Ana kiran 'yan uwayen mazauna maza, inda tsohuwar yara,' ya'yansu mata da jikoki suke rayuwa tare. Babban dattijai a cikin iyali ya dace da majalisa sau ɗaya a mako, inda za'a tattauna yanke shawara mai kyau ga iyali. Maza suna zaune a gidajen iyayensu kuma suna zuwa matansu ne kawai idan sun bayyana sha'awarsu. A wannan yanayin, yarinya ɗaya na iya samun biyar ko shida maza, amma ba zata taba tunanin abin da ta haifa ba. Yarinya ko dai jima'i ya kasance a cikin gida guda tare da ita. Duk da yake mata suna aiki da kuma alhakin 'ya'yansu, maza suna tsaftace gidan da shirya abinci a gare su. 'Yan mata masu tsaurin ra'ayi na Turai da Amurka suna da mafarkin irin wannan fifiko bisa gagarumin jinsi.