A wasu kalmomi, ɓatacciyar jima'i na yaudara ne a cikin halin mutum. Abin da ya wuce al'adun jima'i da aka yarda da ita. Duk da cewa a cikin kowace al'umma, a wasu lokuta, waɗannan ka'idodin sun bambanta, zamu iya gano ainihin nau'un abubuwan da ba a san su ba, wanda har yanzu ana daukar nauyin ƙwayoyin cuta.
Jerin lalata jima'i kamar haka:
- fetishism. Mutum yana jin dadin jima'i da gamsuwa a gaban kowane bangare na jiki, kayan ado, abu, wanda ke wakiltar abokin tarayya;
- transvestism. A wannan yanayin, muna magana game da jima'i da sha'awar jima'i ta hanyar tufafin tufafi na jima'i;
- exhibitionism. Mutum yana samun jin daɗin jin dadin rayuwa lokacin da ya nuna ainihin al'amuran ga baki;
- Voyeurism. Kana son yin rahõto a kan jima'i, mutane marasa tsira. Harshensa shine sha'awar kishi ga batsa;
- pedophilia. Ɗaya daga cikin siffofin da suka fi tsanani da haɗari na bambancin jima'i. Ya kunshi janyo hankalin jima'i ga yara;
- sadomasochism. Samun jin dadi daga haddasawa da jin zafi, marmarin yin amfani da abokin tarayya ko matsakaicin matsayi.
Shirye-shiryen jima'i a cikin matasa masu wahala suna da yawa a zamaninmu. Yin jima'i a cikin samari yana da wuya ba kawai ta hanyar canji na jiki ba, har ma da masu tunani. Ƙaƙidar rashin daidaituwa na jima'i bata haifar da kullun jima'i maras kyau. A wannan yanayin, yiwuwar zubar da jima'i yana da matukar tasiri. A cikin wani yanki na haɗari na musamman akwai yara waɗanda shekarunsu masu tsufa ko dai an jawo su, ko kuma, akasin haka, suna tasowa sosai.
Shirye-shiryen jima'i a matasan suna dogara da halin da ake ciki kuma suna wucin gadi. Tare da tsufa, irin nau'o'in cututtuka da suka wuce sun wuce. Mafi yawan waɗannan sune:
- Voyeurism (ziyartar kan tsirara, kallon batsa);
- exhibitionism;
- Ƙari mai yawa akan al'amuran yara ƙanana ko dabbobi.
Game da dalilai da hanyoyi na magani
Rashin jima'i ba jima'i bane. Ana buƙatar kulawa da lafiya kawai idan waɗannan ɓatarwa suna haifar da rashin tausayi da matsalolin mutum. Wannan na iya tashi ne saboda bayyanar da hukunci ta hanyar doka (lalata, zalunci).
Yin la'akari da karkatacciyar jima'i yana amfani da dukkanin hanyoyin dabarun hankalinsu. Bugu da ƙari, don rage nau'in sha'awar jima'i marar kyau, magani yana nufin taimaka wajen yarda da mutum kamar yadda yake. A lokuta inda sha'awar ta zama barazana ga al'umma, ana amfani da dukkan hanyoyin magance magungunan jima'i. Bugu da ƙari, yin amfani da kayan aiki na musamman don biyan doka.
Mene ne yake haifar da wannan bambanci? Abubuwan da ke haifar da karkatacciyar jima'i za a iya gano su kamar haka:
- Halittar kwayoyin halitta;
- ciwo na kwakwalwa, kuma, sakamakon haka, rikice-rikice na tunanin mutum;
- rashin cin nasara na hormonal baya;
- daban-daban hakki a cikin ci gaban mutum psyche;
- keta hakki na ci gaban jima'i;
- wani nau'i na ilimin jima'i.
Babban dalili da ya kamata a lura da ita shi ne rashin tausayi na ɗan yaro yayin yaro. Wannan za a iya cin zarafi daga tsofaffi, wani abin da ba a gani ba game da tashin hankali ko jima'i, da dai sauransu. Saboda haka, lokacin da yaron yaro, ya kamata ya tuna da alhakin da ke tsakanin iyaye.
Kare lafiyar lafiyar yaron.