Samar da iyali yana ɗaya daga cikin muhimman lokutan rayuwar mutum. Kowane mutum yana so ya ƙirƙirar zaman lafiya mai karfi da al'umma. A matsayinka na mai mulki, maza da mata sun fi so su auri wani daga ƙasarsu, al'umma ɗaya da addini. Halin al'ada, harshe, hadisai da kuma kusanci dangi suna sauƙaƙe hanyar fahimtar juna. Duk da haka, a cikin duniyar yau ba tare da iyakoki ba, auren auren suna karuwa da yawa.
Abubuwan da ke haifar da auren juna
Mutane da yawa suna da abokai daga wasu ƙasashe, duniya ta yanar gizo ta share dukkan iyaka. Kuma soyayya shi ne irin wannan abu, wanda babu wanda ke da nasaba. Yau za ku iya fahimtar dan kasuwa ko baƙo ba tare da barin gida ba. Neman:
- na'ura tare da fitarwa zuwa cibiyar sadarwa;
- asusun a kan shafin yanar gizo, a cikin hanyar sadarwa;
- sha'awar.
Bugu da ƙari, da dalilan "hankulan" don bayyanar da auren aure, akwai:
- Tattalin arziki . A sakamakon sakamakon tafiyar duniya, yawan matafiya suna karuwa, kuma tare da shi yawan adadin kabilu na kabilanci. A cewar kididdigar Majalisar Dinkin Duniya, kimanin rabin (49.6%) na 'yan gudun hijirar kasa da kasa miliyan 200 a 2005 sun kasance mata. Yarjejeniya ta duniya ita ce damar da za ta kasance mai aminci ga su.
- Psychological . Masana sunyi jayayya cewa akwai auren kabilancin kabila, da ma'anar su ne farkon alaka da dangantaka a cikin iyali. Yara suna cin zarafin iyayensu. Alal misali, mahaifin ya ci gaba da maimaita "oh waɗannan amerikos, dukansu ba 'yan adam ba ne" da sauransu. A yarinyar a kan ƙananan ra'ayoyin matakan yunkurin magance matsalar. Wataƙila tana girma da auren Amurka don tabbatar wa mahaifinsa cewa ba daidai ba ne.
- Social . Wani namiji daga wata ƙasa mai tattalin arziki ba tare da tattalin arziki ba, amma idan ya kai matsayi na zamantakewa, ya auri mace daga wata ƙasa mai ci gaba, amma bai sami matsayi mai girma ba. Ko kuma mataimakin vice. Kamar wannan ne suke daidaitawa.
- Siyasa . Sararin samaniya na sarakuna, shugabanni.
Bukukuwan 'yanci - fahimtar juna
Halin halayyar halayen auren auren ya bambanta da wadanda ke cikin gida guda ɗaya. Hanyoyin da dama suna shafar yanayin yanayi a cikin irin wannan iyali:
- hadisai;
- hankali;
- addini;
- harshe;
- farfadowa daga dangi.
Masanan sunyi imani cewa a cikin auren auren yana da mahimmanci a yanke shawara nawa kowannen mata yana shirye ya shiga sabuwar al'ada. Sun bambanta nau'in haɗin kai guda hudu, na biyu da na uku sune mafi nasara ga rayuwar iyali daidai:
- dasa al'adun ku da kuma watsi da al'adun mijin;
- watsi da al'adunsu, cikakken hadewa cikin sabon abu;
- haɗin kai na musamman, tallafawa wasu al'amuran al'adu;
- ƙi duka daga mutum da kuma daga al'adar matar.
Ƙungiyoyi masu tayarwa - jinsin
Yara daga cikin auren auren yara ba su da kariya ga cututtukan kwayoyin halitta . Alal misali, jinsin da ke da alhakin cututtuka "cututtuka na sikila" anima ne (wanda aka fizgewa) a Afrika. Idan wata mace ta Afrika ta haife Turai, to, yaro ba zai sami wannan cuta ba. Hakanan ya shafi sauran lahani maras nauyi. Kwayoyin cututtuka daga auren auren mata suna "mutuwa daga ciki". Masana kimiyya sun yi imanin cewa, ga mazhabobi masu tsauraran matakan auren kirkire ne mai kyau zaɓi.
Wani abu shine bayyanar. Ba koyaushe haɗuwa da jinsi suna kaiwa ga kyakkyawan sakamako. Duk da haka, wasu daga cikin mafi kyau mutane suna bayyana a cikin auren gauraye. Abokan marubuta na auren auren suna nuna misalin wannan:
- An haifi Shania Twain dan kasar Canada daga ƙungiyar Kanada da dan asalin Indiya.
- Beyonce, mahaifin zuriyar Afirka, mahaifiyar Creole (a cikin iyalinta ita ce Faransanci, Indiyawa da Afirka ta Amirka).
- Mariah Carey, mahaifiyarta Irish ce, mahaifinta na Afroenese zuriya ne.
Bukukuwan sha'awa - Orthodoxy
Ikilisiyar Orthodox na da mummunar hali game da auren aure. Suna barazana ga bangaskiyar Orthodox. Sau da yawa auren auren auren auren aure ne. A karni na 7, a Majalisa na gaba a Constantinople, an nuna halin kiristancin Orthodox a wannan batu. An haramta auren auren dangi. Malaman zamanin zamani basu canja wannan ra'ayi ba. A ra'ayinsu, yin auren aure ya kawar da Orthodoxy. Matar da ta auri namiji daga wani addini dabam, yana da wuya a kafa bangaskiyar Orthodox a cikin yara.
Abokan auren auren - Abubuwa da fursunoni
Abokan auren 'yanci a cikin zamani na zamani - wani abu ne na al'ada. A cikin auren auren akwai karin da kuma ƙusa. Aure wa mutum daga wata ƙasa yana da amfani da yawa:
- nutsewa cikin wasu hadisai, fadada al'adun al'adu;
- lalata launin fata da kabilanci;
- ikon yin koyon harshen waje a cikin yanayi na halitta;
- irin waɗannan auren suna koyar da haɗin kai da fahimta, wanda ya sa su kasance mafi tsayi;
- An tabbatar da cewa yara da aka haife su daga wakilan kasashe daban-daban (races, al'ummai) sun fi lafiya da basira.
Tare da waɗannan abũbuwan amfãni akwai matsalolin auren auren:
- canji a cikin "tunani" da kuma sararin samaniya;
- rabuwa daga dangi;
- sau da yawa iyaye da miji da matar suna adawa da irin wannan aure saboda ra'ayoyin ra'ayin rikitarwa;
- asarar hadisai na ƙasarsu da kuma wajibi su bi sababbin hadisai;
- matsaloli na yanayin sadarwa;
- Tambayoyi game da tayar da yara;
- Rashin iyawa ya dauke ɗan yaro daga cikin kasar a yayin yakin aure.
Movies game da auren mata
Batun na "sanarwa" dangantakar cinikayya son. Fim din game da auren auren wasan kwaikwayon wani wasan kwaikwayo ne, kuma wani lokacin wani wasan kwaikwayo. Hotuna masu haske waɗanda ke nuna alamar aure:
- "Laving" masanin Amurka, Jeff Nichols. Rashin baƙin ciki na Richard da Mildred Laving, sun yanke masa hukumcin ɗaurin auren aure.
- "Sayonara" shi ne fassarar tarihin Amurka ta Joshuwa Logan, wanda aka buga a shekara ta 1957. Ƙasar Amurka, wanda ke la'antar auren auren, yana ƙaunar dan wasan Japan.
- "Mad Wedding" - wani shahararren fim din Faransanci daga Philippe de Chevron game da siffofin hulɗar hulɗar tsakanin yara da kuma al'adun al'adu tsakanin iyali.
Ƙarƙwarar Dangi na Celebrities
Masu shahararren mutane ma mutane ne, kuma tsarin tafiyar duniya yana shafar su. Kuma ƙauna. Mafi shahararrun auren auren sune:
- Nicolas Cage da Alice Kim.
- David Bowie da Iman.
- John Lennon da Yoko Ono.
- Robert de Niro da Grace Hightower.
- Bruce Lee da Linda Cadwell.