Idan shekaru da dama da suka wuce an haramta batun batun jima'i tsakanin maza da mata, a cikin duniyar zamani, saboda godiya ta jima'i, yanayin ya canza. Mutane da yawa, ba tare da tsoron tsoron jama'a ba, sun bayyana ra'ayinsu. Amma ga kasashen CIS wannan batun ya kasance ɓoye, yawancin kalmomi ba su sani ba.
Menene "fitar" yake nufi?
Wannan kalma na asalin Ingilishi ne kuma a cikin fassarar ma'anar yana nufin ƙaddamarwa. A furtawa shi, mutum ya fahimci wasu kamar yadda ya kasance na 'yan tsirarun jima'i ko kuma jikinsa bai dace da sani ba. Don fahimtar abin da ake nufi da "fitarwa", zamu lura cewa 'yan lebians, gays, bisexuals and transgender people (LGBT) suna amfani da wannan ma'anar.
Kalmar "kamba out", ma'anar abin da aka samu wani tushe na kimiyya, wanda masaniyar kwaminisancin Amurka E. Hooker ya nazari. Matar ta dauki nazarin wannan batu a cikin shekaru 50. Akwai wata kalma irin wannan - mai ba da labari, wanda aka yi amfani dashi lokacin da mutane suka bayyana gaskiyar mutumin da ke cikin 'yancin jima'i a cikin tashin hankali ba tare da yardarsa ba.
Celebrities wanda ya sanya sansani fita
Kodayake al'umma ta yaudare, ba duka suna shirye su bayyana asirin su ba, musamman sun ba da cewa akwai sauran mutanen da suka hukunta 'yan luwadi. Yawancin mutane da dama sun yanke shawara su bayyana matsayinsu ga duniya. Tsira da kwarewa daga masu shahararrun suna da karfi kuma suna jan hankalin dan jarida da jama'a. Wasu mutane suna amfani da wannan abin kunya ga PR.
Ƙwararren murya mafi girma
'Yan jarida da masu kallo na al'ada sun tabbata cewa mutane da yawa mutane' yan luwadi ne, amma ba duka sun kasance suna shirye su yi magana a kan wannan batu ba. Wannan shi ne saboda babban hadarin hasara na magoya da kudade. Daga kowane mulki akwai wasu, kuma wasu taurari suna buɗewa ga jama'a. Daga cikin dukkanin furci, akwai labarun da suka gigice jama'a:
- Tafaro daga Ronaldo . Ɗaya daga cikin labarai ta fice a Intanet, kamar yadda aka ruwaito cewa Ronaldo ya furta rashin daidaituwa. Ya faru a lokacin "Real" wasan "Atletico Madrid", lokacin da mai kunnawa na tawagar da ake kira Cristiano Ronaldo gay , wanda ya amsa tare da furci, ya kara da cewa shi ma arziki. A wannan lokacin babu tabbacin tabbatarwa.
- Tawago daga Jodie Foster . Shahararrun 'yar wasan kwaikwayo ta karbi Oscars da Golden Globes guda biyu, tare da taka rawar gani. Sai kawai bayan da ya yanke shawara ya bar wurin hutun da ake bukata, ta bayyana, cewa mata suna janyo hankali. Shekara guda bayan bayanan jama'a, Jody ya yi aure mai daukar hoto A. Hedison.
- Daniel Craig . Game da mai wasan kwaikwayon da aka sani game da aikin James Bond lokaci-lokaci akwai jita-jita game da tsarin da ba na al'ada ba. Man da Daniel ya zuba a cikin wuta, wanda ya bayyana tare da abokansa a cikin kulob din gay. Masu kallo sun ce har ma sun ga k'wallon fim yana sumbantar da mutum. A wannan lokacin, Daniel Craig bai fito ba .
- Jake Gyllenhaal . Jita-jita, game da daidaitawar wasan kwaikwayo, ya bayyana bayan ya taka leda. 'Yan luwadi na ainihi sun yi iƙirarin cewa ɗaya daga cikinsu zai iya yin wasa sosai. A wannan lokacin, Jake Gyllenhaal bai yi komai ba.
- Robert Pattinson . Mai wasan kwaikwayo, yana ba da wata hira da tashar ta Indiya, ya ce karin 'yan mata ba su jawo hankalinsa ba, kuma yana jin dadin mutumin. Har zuwa yanzu, miliyoyin magoya suna ƙoƙari su fahimci ko Robert Pattinson ya yi sansanin ko a'a, saboda wannan tashar ta sau da yawa yana samar da "duck".
- Angelina Jolie . Wani jariri mai kayatarwa wanda sau da dama ya karbi sunan "mace mafi kyau", Angelina Jolie, wanda aka fitar da shi a daya daga cikin tambayoyin, shine bisexual.
- Tawagar Ellen Page ta yi a lokacin bikin LGBT, Lokacin da za a yi nasara, inda actress ta ce ta gajiya da ɓoye ainihinta da wahala daga matsayi na jama'a.
- Kristen Sewart . Daya daga cikin mujallu da mata da yawa masu sha'awar fim din "Twilight Saga" suka fada game da rashin aurenta, amma a lokaci guda Kusa da Christie Stewart ba ya nufin yin shi, domin ba ta la'akari da hakan ba.
- Ricky Martin , wanda fitar da shi ya zama abin mamaki ga mutane da yawa, ya yi ikirari akan shafin yanar gizonsa. A yau ya haifa 'ya'ya maza biyu kuma yayi niyyar fara iyali tare da saurayi.
Yayinda yake fitowa daga 'yan Rasha
Ga 'yan tsiraru a cikin rukunin' yan mata a Rasha suna da tsayayya, sabili da haka maganganu masu mahimmanci suna da wuya. Mutanen da suka yanke shawara sunyi wannan mataki, sun fuskanci karin rashin fahimta da hukunci. Wasu mutanen da ba tare da al'adun gargajiya ba har ma suna da hauka.
- Mafi yawan abin da aka fitar game da Panda, wanda ya halarci wasan kwaikwayon "Mai binciken Laki", inda ya amsa tambayoyin da suka shafi jigilar al'amurran, ciki harda yanayinsa. Alexei ya ce yana da bisexual.
- Daga cikin mawaƙa, mutumin da ya fi sanannen bisexual shine Eva Polna, sansanin da ba'a mamaki ba da yawa. Mai rairayi ya ce tana cikin dangantaka mai zurfi tare da marubucin mai kula da ita na Alexandra Alexandra.
- 'Yar Mikhail Efremov ta rubuta ta cikin rubutun sa na sadarwar zamantakewa mai girma. Wata yarinya ta yarda cewa tana shan wuya daga mutum mai tsabta.
- Mawaki mai ban tsoro Nikita Dzhigurda a cikin wata hira ya bayyana cewa nan da nan ya kamata ya sa ran wani abin mamaki daga gare shi. Bayan ya saki, kowa ya fara magana game da yanayinsa. Dzhigurda sansanin ya yi, amma ya damu da matsalolin tunaninsa, ba jima'i ba.
Tambayoyi da suka shafi batun - menene ma'anar "cumming out" yana nufin, kada ya tashi bayan bayanan da aka samu. Kowane mutum ya cancanci rayuwa ba tare da iyakancewa da iyaka ba, yana nuna kansa a matsayin ainihin, ba jin tsoron kasancewa da dutse ba. Mutane suna da ra'ayi daban-daban game da liwadi, amma don ƙaryatãwa game da wanzuwarsa shi ne mafi ban mamaki.