Tuni dadewa akwai ra'ayi na barga cewa mutane sun fi masu cin amana fiye da mata. Amma al'amuran da suka ci gaba a cikin al'umma sun kasance da nisa daga ainihin yanayin harkokin. To, wane ne zai iya canzawa: maza ko mata? Menene kimiyya ke fadi game da stereotypes?
Wanene ya canza wasu: maza ko mata?
Nazarin ilimin zamantakewa ya ce mata sukan canza abokan hulɗa fiye da maza. Zai yiwu alama mai ban mamaki, amma ba za ku iya jayayya da gaskiyar ba. Idan muka yi magana game da kashi dari na maza na canza mata, to, kimanin kimanin kimanin 34%. Amma matan da suka canza mazajensu, a kan al'amurran zamantakewar al'amurran da suka shafi kashi 40%.
Har ila yau, ban sha'awa shine abin da ake kira iyakar shekarun cin amana . Maza yakan canza a shekarun 20 zuwa 20, wannan shekarun shine babban nauyin jima'i. Amma mata suna ci gaba da cin amana a lokacin shekaru 30-35, lokacin da suka gaji da duniyar iyali kuma akwai sha'awar sabon abu.
Da sau nawa maza da mata sukan canza kome da kome. Amma abin mamaki, duk da cewa mata sukan sauya sau da yawa, maza suna iya yin tunani game da jima'i . A wannan rana, wakilan jima'i na jima'i suna tunani game da jima'i sau 2-3, amma maza suna tunawa game da shi kusan sau 10 a kowace rana. Amma kusan kashi 30 cikin 100 na mata suna son jima'i da jima'i. Kuma kawai 14% na maza a lokaci daya janyo hankalin dan luwaɗi.
Gaba ɗaya, kididdiga - wani abu mai rikitarwa. Yana da wahala a faɗi yadda mutane da yawa suka sauya, yawan mata sukan sauya, saboda duk mutane sun bambanta, kuma kididdigar bushe ne kawai siffofin. Amma, duk da haka, hujjoji sun kasance masu gaskiya. Kuma, kamar yadda ba abin mamaki bane, matan sukan yaudare maza fiye da sau da yawa, ko da yake maza ana ganin sun kasance mafi yawan 'yan wasan "su tafi hagu."