A cikin mutane, jin dadin mallaki yawanci ana kiransa kishi mai tsananin gaske. A matsayinka na mai mulki, mutumin da yake jin dadin wannan, abubuwan da ke fama da zafi a kowane abokin tarayya tare da wani mutum na jima'i, ba ya jurewa lokacin da abin da soyayya yake so ga wani wanin kansa.
Kishi da kuma ma'anar mallaki
Ba wani asiri ba ne cewa ma'anar kasancewa a cikin dangantakar ba ta sa kowa yayi farin ciki ba. A matsayinka na mai mulki, saboda shi, shi kansa kishi ne, kuma abin kishiyarsa. Kishi yana iya zama maza da mata kuma yana nuna kanta shine yawanci kamar haka:
- abokin tarayya mai kishi ya nemi kula da sadarwa na ƙaunataccen dan waya da kuma cikin sadarwar zamantakewa;
- kishi duk lokacin ƙoƙarin samun lissafin inda kuma wanda rabinsa yake;
- Mutumin kishi ya hana yin hulɗa tare da kowane aboki na jima'i;
- wanda yake damuwa tare da kishi, sau da yawa yana yada kullun daga fashewa ko kuma shirya "duba".
Wasu mutane sunyi haƙuri a gaban kasancewar mai kishi kusa da kansu, wasu irin wannan iko zai zama mummunan ciwo. Ba kowane mutum zai iya jure wa irin wannan hali ga kansa ba.
Ta yaya za a kawar da jinin mallakar ku?
Kishi da mahimmancin mallaki yana iya gyarawa. Wannan yana buƙatar dukkanin matakan ma'auni:
- shiga cikin wasanni, bayyanar, zama mafi ƙarfin zuciya a kanka , don sanin - mutane kamar za ku so kowa;
- Ku yarda da abokin tarayya cewa ba za ku yaudare juna ba, kuma idan wani ya ƙaunaci wani, to sai yakamata dole ya biyo baya;
- Bayyana wa abokin hulɗar wannan fasalin kuma ya nemi ka taimaka - yi la'akari da kalmar kalma da kake buƙatar furtawa idan an "rubuta" ka.
Mafi mahimmanci, tare da tambayar samun nasara a kan mahimmancin mallaki, juya zuwa mai kyau kocin wanda zai iya samun hanyar da ta dace maka da dama zaman.