A cikin duniyar zamani, labarun jima'i na mutane sau da yawa ya zama abin kunya, yayin da mutane suka fara bayyana cewa sun "ba kamar sauran mutane" ba. Zai zama mai ban sha'awa don sanin ko wane irin fuskoki ne, abin da ake la'akari da al'ada, da kuma abin da yake rarraba, da kuma yadda za'a fara samuwa.
Mene ne tsarin jima'i?
Jima'i ya ƙunshi abubuwa huɗu masu muhimmanci: jinsi, jinsi, jinsi na zamantakewa da daidaitawar jima'i. A karkashin sashi na ƙarshe an fahimci ƙarin ko ƙarancin motsin rai, jima'i da jima'i na mutum zuwa wasu mutane na jima'i. Akwai yiwuwar yin jima'i na heterere, homo, da bi-da sauran nau'in. Babu wani daga cikinsu wanda aka dauke da rashin lafiya ko rashin lafiya. Mutum na iya gane ko ƙaryatãwa game da mutum.
Nau'i na jima'i
Mutane da yawa sun gaskata cewa akwai nau'o'i guda uku kawai, amma wannan ba haka bane kuma akwai wasu da yawa. Jerin jerin hanyoyin jima'i yana ci gaba da cikawa kuma a cikin misali akwai yiwu a haifar da irin wannan:
- Ma'aurata . Mutanen da ba su jin sha'awar jima'i, ko da yake suna iya godiya da fifita wasu.
- Salamaxuals . Daya daga cikin mahimmancin fuskoki, kamar yadda mutane ke jin dadi da damar haziƙin da abokin tarayya ke ciki. A hanyar, akwai mata fiye da maza.
- Panseksualy . Alamun jima'i a cikin mata da maza - janyo hankalin mutane ga kowane jinsi da har ma mutane masu wucewa. Panseksualov sun fi sha'awar halin halayen abu da motsin zuciyar da yake jin dadi lokacin sadarwa. Ga su, kusanci na ruhaniya yana da muhimmanci fiye da ainihin jima'i.
- Aromantics . Mutane masu irin wannan jima'i suna da sha'awar jima'i, amma motsin rai da jin dadin su basu da muhimmanci. A mafi yawancin lokuta, suna kawai samo abokan tarayya, saboda ba a haɗa su da haɗe-haɗe ba.
Hanyar Jima'i
Idan mutum ya ji sha'awar jima'i na musamman ga 'yan jinsi, an dauke shi cewa yana da daidaitawar mata. Wannan jinsin shine rinjaye. Hanya na al'ada-al'ada, wadda aka dauka daidai. An bayyana wannan a fili cewa a duniya duniyar liwadi a cikin siffarsa mai tsabta bata da wuya a gani, kuma a cikin su mazaunan jima'i a yawancin lokuta ba sa jin dadin juna, amma, akasin haka, suna nuna tashin hankali a cikin gwagwarmaya don abokin tarayya mafi kyau.
Harkokin jima'i marasa daidaituwa
Irin wannan tsarin ya hada da homo- da bisexuality . A cikin akwati na farko, mutane suna janyo hankulan mutane na jima'i, kuma a na biyu - ga wakilan ma'aurata. A baya an yi imani da cewa mutane da ba tare da al'ada na jima'i ba suna da halayyar hankali. A farkon karni na 20, masanin kimiyya Haslock Ellis ya tabbatar da cewa liwadi ba shi da kyau, saboda haka wannan yana daya daga cikin zaɓuɓɓuka na al'ada.
Shirye-shiryen jima'i
Akwai nau'i-daban iri na yadda aka kafa fuskantarwa, kuma mafi yawa daga cikinsu ba daidai ba ne. Masana kimiyya sun tabbatar da cewa daidaitawar jima'i ba zai iya canzawa ba saboda yanayin rashin iyaye, rashin jin tsoro da sauransu. Don fahimtar abin da ke ƙayyade yanayin jima'i, an gudanar da bincike a kan samuwar tayin a cikin mahaifa.
Masana kimiyya sunyi imani da cewa makonni 6-8 bayan zubar da ciki, babban adadin hormones sun shiga cikin amfrayo, waɗanda suke da muhimmanci ga samuwar alamun jima'i da tsarin kwakwalwa. Sashin farko na cikinsu ya ci gaba da ci gaba da halaye na jima'i, da abin da ya rage - a kan kwakwalwar kwakwalwa. Idan adadin hormones bai ishe ba, to, akwai motsi a cikin jima'i. Babban mawuyacin rashin cin nasara na hormonal: damuwa , rashin lafiya da shan wasu magunguna a farkon watanni 2. ciki.
Yaya za a tantance jituwa ta jima'i?
Masana kimiyya da masana kimiyya a Amurka sun gudanar da bincike wanda ya ba da sakamako mai ban mamaki. Ma'anar daidaitawar jima'i za a iya gudanar tare da tsawon yatsunsu a hannun. A sakamakon haka, an cimma shawarar karshe:
- Lesbians - yatsan yatsun ya fi tsayi.
- 'Yan mata da daidaituwa tsakanin maza da mata - wanda ba a san shi ba da yatsan hannu yana da daidai daidai.
- Gays - yatsan hannu ya fi tsawon yatsan da ba a san shi ba.
- Guys da fuskantarwa daban-daban - tsawon yatsin yatsa ya fi tsayi.
Lattice na jima'i
A shekara ta 1985, Fritz Klein, don karin ƙayyadadden ƙididdigewa da auna ma'aunin mutane, yana samar da matakan uku wanda ke la'akari da jima'i da jima'i a cikin lokaci uku: a yanzu, nan gaba da kuma baya. Hanya na Klein jigilar jima'i yana taimakawa wajen ganin bambancin jima'i a cikin rayuwar. Kowane ɗayan ginshiƙai guda uku dole ne a cika da dabi'u daga 1 zuwa 7 na kowane saiti. A cika shi wajibi ne don la'akari da wannan, tun da maɓallin ba'a nuna ma'anar jima'i ba, to, ana iya barin zane-zane masu dacewa a ɓoye.
A mafi yawancin lokuta, an nuna su a kan Siffofin daban-daban, an samu su da mahimmanci. Za a iya sanya su a kan ginshiƙai uku (baya, yanzu da baya), da kuma sakamakon da aka raba ta uku. Don ƙayyade cikakkiyar ɓangaren mahaukaci / ɗan kishili, sami cikakken jimillar dukkan alamomi don dukkanin zane-zane kuma raba shi da yawan yawan kwayoyin da aka cika, wanda zai iya zama 21 ko žasa. Lattice jima'i ya hada da waɗannan sigogi:
- Jima'i jima'i - mutane, wane jima'i yakan haifar da farin ciki kuma ya ja hankalin jiki?
- Halin jima'i shine jima'i na haɗin kai na ainihi, wato, tare da wanda yake da saduwa ta jiki: kisses, shags and intimacy.
- Jima'i jima'i - wane nau'in jima'i ne mutane suke da abin da kuke tunanin a cikin tunanin ku?
- Hanyoyin da suke so - wane jinsi ne abokanka da wanda kake kulawa da kusa?
- Sha'idodin zamantakewa - wanda mutane kuke so su sadarwa, aiki da kuma ciyar ku kyauta kyauta?
- Salon rayuwa - Yawancin lokaci kuna yawan lokaci tare da mutanen da ke da matakan jima'i daban-daban.
- Taɓo kai-kanka - ta yaya kake bayyana yanayinka?
Egodistonic jima'i fuskantarwa
A wannan lokaci muna nufin rashin lafiyar jiki wanda mutum yayi magana game da sha'awarsa na canza yanayin jima'i. Rashin gazawar ba ya damu da daidaitawar kanta ba, amma buƙatar sauyawa a fuskantarwa, abubuwan da ke ciki da depressions. Rahotanni sun nuna cewa irin wannan cuta da aka haɗu da jima'i sukan nuna sau da yawa a cikin 'yan luwadi wadanda ba za su iya karbar janyo hankalin su ba saboda matsanancin tashin hankali na jama'a.
Don tantance wannan cuta, ana gudanar da bincike a kan nuna kaiwa ga jima'i, siffofi da kuma hulɗar interpersonal, da kuma nazarin asibiti da kuma tunanin tunanin mutum don cire matsalolin ƙwayar tunani. Domin samun karbar jima'i, ana gudanar da maganin don inganta yanayin zamantakewa da jima'i. Ana amfani da nau'o'in psychotherapy iri-iri.
Masu shahararrun tare da jima'i na jima'i
Tun da jama'a a kowace shekara sun fi dacewa ga wakilan 'yan tsirarun mata, mawaƙa, masu zane-zane,' yan wasan kwaikwayo na Hollywood tare da jima'i ba tare da bambanci ba. Bari mu kula da shaidar da ta haifar damuwar jama'a:
- Elton John - ya fara magana ne game da yadda ba a saba da shi a 1976 ba.
- Ellen Degeneres - a 1997 akwai wani mujallar, a kan abin da yake rufe shi ne babban hoto da ikirari.
- Tom Ford , a wata hira da wata mujallar sanannen, ta yi magana game da dangantakar da take da shi da babban editan mujallar mujallar Daily Women's Daily.
- Stefano Gabbano da Domenico Dolce sune masu zane-zane, sun kasance cikin dangantaka da shekaru 15, amma yanzu suna da wasu abokan.
- Adam Lambert - bai taba ɓoye jima'i na jima'i ba.